The Work That Stays: Meet Rebecca Donley
by David Faro, MPA,CGSP
In Oregon, Highway 101 has a rhythm all its own.
101 doesn’t simply follow the coast. It seems to be negotiating with it. For a few miles the road disappears into dense stands of Sitka spruce where the trees crowd so closely against the pavement that it's easy to forget the Pacific is only a short distance away. Then, almost without warning, the forest opens and the ocean stretches toward the horizon. Fishing boats work beyond the breakers. Sea stacks rise from the water, silent monuments. A weathered motel sits above the beach, its vacancy sign flickering through the morning fog. Before long the road bends again, the ocean slips out of sight behind another wall of evergreens, and then, you're on your way to the next town. Drive the coast long enough and you begin to realize that Highway 101 isn't really connecting places. It's connecting people.
I love the Oregon coast. Every town has its own personality. Astoria still carries the confidence of a working waterfront. Newport feels different from Florence. Bandon feels different from Brookings. Some communities have learned to live with the rhythm of tourism. Others still revolve around fishing, timber, or families that have been there for generations. The landscape changes slowly, but the people give each place its character. They are the ones who remember your name when you stop in for breakfast two mornings in a row. They are the ones who recommend the beach you won't find in the guidebooks or ask where you're headed before refilling your coffee.
After being handed a perfect cup in Manzanita, it struck me, most travelers experience the Oregon coast one conversation at a time. Someone checks them into a hotel after a long day on the road. Someone serves them lunch overlooking the Pacific. Someone points them toward a lighthouse, a hiking trail, or a bakery just around the corner. Individually, those moments seem almost insignificant. Together, they become the story people carry home. Long after they've forgotten room numbers, menu prices, or the weather, they remember how a place made them feel.
Those were the people Rebecca Donley wanted to understand.
When Rebecca and I first talked about the work she had been doing, she described what sounded, at least initially, like a fairly typical workforce development project. As Workforce Strategist for the Oregon Restaurant & Lodging Association, she had been helping lead a planning effort supported through the U.S. Department of Labor's Good Jobs Initiative. The assignment was to better understand the hospitality workforce along Oregon's coast and identify opportunities to strengthen it. There would be surveys, focus groups, employer engagement, worker input, and eventually a report that would bring those findings together into recommendations for the future. Anyone who has spent time in workforce development has seen projects like this before. We collect information because good decisions require good information. We measure employment and labor market trends because they help us understand where opportunities exist and where barriers remain. Those measurements matter. They influence policy, funding, and the decisions organizations make every day. Done well, they help communities invest where investment is needed most. Rebecca believed in all of that.
She also recognized something the project revealed almost immediately. The surveys weren't telling the whole story. "You can't just send an email to folks and expect the surveys to get answered," she told me. There wasn't any frustration in her voice when she said it. It sounded more like someone acknowledging reality than criticizing a process. Hospitality doesn't stop because research needs to be conducted. Restaurant owners are covering shifts. Front desk associates are checking in guests. Managers are solving whatever unexpected problem that occurred ten minutes ago. Completing another survey from someone they've never met understandably falls below the demands of serving customers and running a business.
Many people would have accepted that as one of the unavoidable limitations of research. Rebecca saw it differently. If people weren't coming to the research, perhaps the research needed to go to the people. So, Rebecca got in her car.
Over the following months she drove the length of the Oregon coast, stopping in communities large and small, sitting down with employers, employees, educators, workforce partners, and local leaders. She met people where they already were instead of asking them to come somewhere else. Conversations happened over coffee before the lunch rush began. Hotel managers found time between check-ins. Frontline employees spoke candidly in focus groups, including several conducted entirely in Spanish, because Rebecca understood that some of the most important voices in hospitality are also the easiest to overlook if you aren't intentional about inviting them into the conversation.
The more she described those months on the road, the more I found myself thinking about the difference between collecting information and earning understanding. I've spent much of my own career helping build partnerships among employers, educators, government agencies, and community organizations. Like Rebecca, I've participated in collaborations designed to strengthen regional economies. I've learned to appreciate the value of data because it allows us to see patterns that individual experience alone can miss. But I've also learned something else. Data tells us what is happening. People tell us why.
That distinction may sound subtle, but I think it explains why Rebecca's work has stayed with me. A spreadsheet can tell you that turnover has increased. It can't tell you what it feels like to be a young supervisor trying to build a career in a community where housing costs have climbed. A survey can tell you that employees want advancement opportunities. It can't capture the quiet disappointment of someone who has spent years proving themselves without ever hearing another person say, "I think you're ready for more responsibility." Numbers matter. Stories matter just as much. Rebecca understood that from the beginning. She wasn't simply trying to gather enough information to complete a report. She was trying to understand the lived experience behind the statistics. That required something surveys alone could never produce. It requires trust, and trust has always been built the same way. One conversation at a time.
As Rebecca described the people she had met, very little of what she heard surprised me. That isn't because her work lacked insight. Quite the opposite. It was because the people she spoke with were describing something many of us who have spent our careers in hospitality have witnessed for years.
Many of us have watched hospitality change lives in ways that are difficult to explain to someone who has never worked inside it. We've seen uncertain teenagers arrive for their first shift looking nervously at the floor, unsure whether they belonged, only to discover a few years later that they were leading teams, training new employees, and solving problems with a confidence they never imagined they possessed. We've watched newcomers to America take their first job in a restaurant or hotel while learning a new language and, over time, become supervisors, managers, business owners, and respected members of their communities. We've watched dishwashers become cooks, cooks become chefs, servers become managers, and managers eventually open places of their own. Those stories are so common in hospitality that we sometimes forget how remarkable they really are.
Hospitality has always been a teacher. It teaches responsibility because people depend on you. It teaches resilience because no shift ever unfolds exactly as planned. It teaches adaptability because the unexpected is part of the job description, whether it's a busload of travelers arriving unannounced, a cook calling in sick, or a family celebrating a birthday that everyone else somehow forgot to mention. Most of all, it teaches empathy. For a few moments, another person's experience becomes your responsibility. Whether you're preparing a meal, making up a room, greeting someone at the front desk, or answering a question from a visitor who's never been there before, you're being trusted with something more valuable than a transaction. You're being trusted with someone's time, their expectations, and often a memory they'll carry long after they've gone home.
None of that surprised me.
What surprised me was how consistently Rebecca heard those same themes emerge from communities that were separated by hundreds of miles and very different local economies. The people she met didn't know one another. Their businesses served different markets. Some communities depended heavily on tourism while others balanced hospitality alongside industries. Yet the conversations kept returning to familiar places. People wanted to feel respected. They wanted opportunities to grow. They wanted leaders who listened, workplaces where they could contribute ideas, and organizations that invested in them as people rather than simply as employees. Those conversations confirmed something many of us in hospitality have understood intuitively for years. People rarely stay because of one thing, and they rarely leave because of one thing. Wages matter. Benefits matter. Housing matters. Anyone who suggests otherwise isn't paying attention. But culture matters too. Leadership matters. Feeling seen matters. Believing that your work has purpose matters. Rebecca wasn't discovering some hidden truth about hospitality. She was documenting, with patience and remarkable care, what people throughout the industry had been experiencing all along. That may not sound revolutionary until you consider how workforce development often operates.
We naturally gravitate toward the things we can measure. We count because those numbers help us evaluate whether our efforts are making a difference. They should. Those measurements are important. But anyone who has spent time in hospitality knows that some of the most significant outcomes are almost impossible to capture in a spreadsheet. How do you measure confidence? How do you quantify a supervisor who believed in someone before they believed in themselves? What metric captures the waitress who notices an elderly customer hasn't come in for several days and quietly asks someone to check on him? How do you record the front desk associate who calms an exhausted family after a twelve-hour drive, or the line cook who stays late to help a new employee get through a difficult first shift? Those moments rarely appear in workforce reports. Yet they are often the moments that shape whether someone stays in an industry, whether they become a leader, and whether they eventually become the kind of person others want to work alongside.
As Rebecca continued describing what she had heard, I found myself thinking less about hospitality as an industry and more about hospitality as a reflection of community. I've worked economic development organizations across the country. Nearly every community wants to attract visitors, businesses, investment, and talented people. They create marketing campaigns, strategic plans, and economic development initiatives designed to tell the world why their community is worth visiting or calling home. Those efforts matter. But eventually every strategy arrives at the same place. A visitor walks through the front door.
At that moment, the strategic plan disappears. The marketing campaign disappears. The branding disappears. What's left is one human being meeting another. Someone smiles. Someone offers directions. Someone notices that a family has had a long day. Someone remembers a returning guest. Someone serves a meal with genuine care instead of simple efficiency. In that ordinary exchange, the reputation of an entire community is quietly being shaped.
I don't think we acknowledge that nearly often enough.
Hospitality is usually described as an industry. Economists measure its contribution to regional economies. Tourism professionals measure visitor spending. Workforce professionals measure employment and career pathways. All of those perspectives are valid, but I wonder if they miss something equally important. Hospitality is one of the primary ways a community introduces itself to the world. Long before visitors understand a city's history, its economic strategy, or its long-term vision, they experience its people.
Rebecca's work kept bringing me back to that idea. She hadn't simply spent a year studying restaurants and hotels along Highway 101. She had spent a year listening to the people who quietly create the experience of an entire region. Through hundreds of conversations she wasn't just documenting workforce challenges. She was documenting the everyday acts of professionalism, generosity, and care that allow communities to welcome strangers every single day. That isn't just workforce development. It's stewardship of a beautiful state.
What interests me just as much is what happened after those conversations. The work did not end when the research was finished or when the findings could be gathered into a report. Rebecca continues to bring coastal operators together every month for what she calls a virtual tête-à-tête, although in workforce board language it is a next-generation sector partnership. The distinction is probably less important than what happens when everyone gets into the same room, even if that room happens to be virtual. Operators talk about what is working and what is not. They hear what others are trying and get connected to resources they may not have known existed. Rebecca listens to those conversations with the larger system in mind, then turns back toward the community colleges, workforce boards, and other support partners and helps them understand where their resources can actually make a difference. She is a Champion.
There is a loop in that process that I think explains why the work has continued to grow rather than slowly disappearing after the original project ended. The industry keeps talking. Rebecca keeps listening. Support partners respond to what they hear. Then everyone comes back to the table and the process begins again. The work gets to evolve alongside the industry because the relationship itself never really ends.
Just as importantly, much of what has emerged from those conversations is being built to remain whether Rebecca is in the room or not. Guest Service Gold and Restaurant Ready can live inside community-based organizations and colleges. North Coast Certified can belong to the region. Operators can carry training into their businesses, while workers carry credentials and skills with them as their careers develop. Rebecca may help connect those pieces, but their usefulness does not depend on her continuing to stand in the middle of them.
The Line Cook apprenticeship now being developed in Oregon is a good example of how that works. Operators kept telling Rebecca they needed a consistent way to train people, while workers were telling her something equally important. They could not afford to stop earning a living in order to become better trained. Apprenticeship creates a bridge between those two realities because people learn while they work and continue earning a wage. By utilizing the National Restaurant Association's federally approved standards, Oregon can build from an existing national foundation, benefit from resources and a lower administrative burden through the state and national teams and position the program to access Oregon resources once it becomes state recognized.
What matters to me about that example is not simply the apprenticeship. It is the way the solution was found. Rebecca did not begin with a program and then go looking for a problem it might solve. She began by listening to people describe the problem and then looked for the right tool. Sometimes that tool already exists. Restaurant Ready can create an entry point through community-based organizations, while ProStart can begin that work with students still in school. Sometimes an existing resource gets a community only part of the way there. In those cases, the answer does not have to be choosing between accepting the program exactly as it was designed or throwing it away entirely. The useful pieces can remain while the missing pieces are built locally.
The Hotelier Bootcamp being developed on the North Coast is a good example. Strong hospitality training resources already exist through AHLEI, and there is little reason to recreate useful material simply for the sake of creating something new. But a national curriculum cannot know everything about working in a particular community on the Oregon coast. The emerging bootcamp uses existing AHLEI modules while incorporating local knowledge and the lived experience of hospitality veterans. It also considers how information needs to be presented to the particular population being served. The result is neither a rejection of an existing resource nor blind adherence to it. It is adaptation, and I have come to believe that knowing when to adapt may be one of the most important skills in workforce development.
Rebecca occupies an unusual position in all of this. She has enough of a bird's-eye view to understand resources that exist across Oregon and nationally, while still being invited into individual mom-and-pop businesses where needs become remarkably specific. Most operators do not have the time or bandwidth to understand the collection of workforce programs, education systems, funding streams, credentials, and public resources that might help them. Most support organizations, through no fault of their own, see the industry through the particular window of the programs and resources they administer. Someone has to be able to stand between those worlds long enough to understand both, then recognize when an existing solution fits, when it needs to be adapted, and when it is better to start again.
I think that may be one of the most important parts of Rebecca's stewardship. She has created a place where the people experiencing the problems and the people holding potential resources continue to find one another. Sometimes her role is simply making the connection. Sometimes it is translating what one side needs so the other can respond. Sometimes it is recognizing that the available answer is not quite good enough and helping people build something that is. The expertise is not merely knowing what programs exist. It is knowing which ones make sense for the people sitting at the table.
Perhaps the clearest evidence that something meaningful has taken hold is that it is no longer confined to Highway 101. Another partnership launched in the Willamette Valley this spring, and Lane County is preparing to launch one this fall. Other regions continue reaching out because they have watched what happened on the coast and see something worth carrying into their own communities. What began as a coastal effort is becoming a way to connect hospitality businesses with support partners across Oregon, but without assuming every region should look exactly the same.
I like that part of the story. Each region gets to build its own table because each region has different people sitting around it. The challenges of the North Coast will not be identical to those in the Willamette Valley, and whatever emerges in Lane County will inevitably reflect Lane County. What can travel is the method. Bring people together often enough that trust has time to form. Listen carefully enough to understand what they actually need. Use the resources that help, adapt the ones that almost help, and build what is missing. Then come back to the table and do it again.
That is how something that began along Highway 101 starts becoming larger. Not because a statewide model was imposed from above, but because communities began learning from one another and building their own versions of what worked. The road that first connected Rebecca to the people of the Oregon coast has become something of a metaphor for the work itself. The places remain distinct. The people remain local. What connects them is the willingness to keep showing up, keep listening, and keep helping one another move forward. The fire catches because people see something working and decide to carry a little of it home.